Arranged marriage and my attitude to it
Arranged marriages are marriages in which family members take a significant role in bringing a couple together. Relatives, particularly parents, often take the initiative to find, evaluate, and approve potential spouses for their children. In some cases, the couple may marry while still relative strangers under the expectation that they will develop a loving relationship over time. These marriages are in contrast to so-called "love marriages," in which a couple is drawn together by mutual attraction and makes the decision to marry on their own. While often associated with cultures in the Middle East, Africa, and India, these arrangements are not unknown in Western countries, particularly among immigrant populations.
Religious or cultural issues, preservation of wealth, or the formation of political alliances are common reasons for arranged marriages. Those who practice family-led courtship and marriage may also argue that such relationships tend to be happier and more stable than those that result from modern, western dating practices. Arranged marriages prevent children from marrying out of their culture, faith and social status. In an arranged marriage, the parents choose the spouse based on many factors, including their child's future happiness and well-being. One of the most positive effects of arranged marriage is evident when you consider the low divorce rate of these types of unions. Most arranged marriages today are not forced but entered into by consenting adults who have had some input on their future spouse.
I think, it doesn't matter how you marry whether its love or arranged. It`s an individual choice. If you want to go for arranged marriage you will be treated with respect all your life even if you are cruel or useless on earth. And if you opt for a love marriage you shouldn't care what the world thinks. You should have faith in your partner.
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