November 14, 2013
The most commonly recognized are pragmatic marriages, where the bride and groom have no choice in the selection of a prospective partner. The children of the parents have no say in who becomes their new partner. The eldest in many families end up making the final decision. This has been current tradition in international cultures for years and years. They do this often to preserve the history and respect for the family. This way no one can come in and change what’s common to them and make them adapt to a brand new way of living. This however has not been a big fan of people who criticize the way arranged marriages are not fair for the individuals who go through the process. They say the countries only have a low divorce rate due to its strict policy on it than the actual marriage its self (Robinson) Arranged marriages have said to be a smarter and wiser decision for its young couples. The elders above them say their wisdom selects a more compatible partner than the child would them self. This has been a long disputed battle that has pros and cons to its methods.
Pros of Arranged Marriages
When someone is put into an arranged marriage it’s more to satisfy the families more so than the people getting married. Even though the couples might not always like each other like that, it’s still a benefit of whose family you’re getting married into. You can be one of the less rich in the country but all that can change if you’re arranged to be partnered with a person from a slightly wealthier family who have more money. The person getting married is taking a sacrifice in way to be with this random person for marriage but it’s for the greater good of the whole family. It’s not always known but when the family arranges the marriage of who’s in it, they also decide when they should get married in life. This can be in school, when they reach a certain age, or whatever they think...
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