Cultural Differences Paper
September 10, 2014
There are cultural differences within all the communities that make up the world, we are constantly surrounded and reminded of these other cultures. In this paper cultural differences will be discussed from the film “Why Did I Get Married?” which is an African-American movie about the hardships one goes through in marriage, friendships, and trust. This paper is going to give specific examples of Hall’s perspective of culture on the screen and Hofstede’s five dimensions that are reflected in a particular pattern. Examples of both verbal and non verbal intercultural communication and how they relate to particular intercultural communication theory, the concept of cultural patterns and which of these patterns are shown in the film, and the evaluation of cultural identity and cultural bias will all be discussed. As well as the verbal and non verbal communications within the characters of the film.
Let's start with the film "Why Did I Get Married?" this film is about four couples who get together every year to a designated vacation spot and work on their marriages through a marriage retreat led by one of the Doctors within the couple. All of their marriages have some sort of trouble. Mike who is married to Sheila has invited a single female friend, Trina, to come along and unknowningly to everyone he is having an affair with this woman. Sheila is a plus sized woman and Mike is not as attractive to her as he was when they first got married, which is why he strayed from their marriage. The next couple is a man who was a football player, Marcus, made loads of money until an accident has rendered him unable to play the sport anymore. He invested in Angela’s (his wife) hair product business, which has become very successful. They are in constant arguing because Angela feels that Marcus is always cheating on her with the mother of his child, and she also resents him for not being the bread winner. Marcus does have extra relations outside of his marriage because of the pressures and constant nagging of his wife. The third couple Terry and Diane are not getting along because Terry wants more children and Diane is a workaholic who is happy with her one child. She neglects to tell Terry that she had her tubes tied, which enrages Terry and their relationship hits a bump. The final couple Gavin and Patricia, Patricia is a doctor and she specializes in relationships. Patricia and Gavin had a child, however, the child passes because Patricia forgets to belt him into his chair. The accident results in Gavin being very accusatory against his wife and refuses to forgive her for their child’s death. Sheila finds about the affair during a dinner in which Troy, the neighborhood sheriff, was attending because they were trying to fix him up with Trina. Sheila runs off and stays in the mountains while everyone else goes home to fix their marriages that had deteriorated during the vacation. During the course of the movies all the relationships work together and all is forgiven. Terry and Diane agree to spend more time together. Marcus finally puts Angela in her place, which shows Angela that he is the boss and that he is finally committed to just her. Patricia and Gavin finally work throughout their problems. Patricia is being awarded at a show and Mike realizes that Trina is not at all what he wants in a relationship. Mike bumps into Sheila, who has lost a lot of weight and looks stunning, he tries to win her back with the 80/20 rule. This rule was discussed among the men. This rule states that most men get 80% of what they need from a marriage yet they tend to go after the 20% that someone outside can provide for them because it appears to be more to them when it really isn't. Sheila turns him down by making him realize that she was his 80 and he messed that up to kindly go back to his 20, she is...
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