Citizens might raise questions, asking what the big problem about gay marriage is. Why are so many U.S. citizens who are not for it? Why does it even matter to them anyways? Often it is not easy to comprehend how citizens think, but majority of the time it is easy to assume where to draw the line when interfering with someone else’s rights. In America any and everyone has the right to go out and obtain a driver’s license, we also have the right to say what we want, but who has the right to tell someone else who they should and shouldn’t marry? Though gay marriage is not of the norm, and marriage is for reproduction. Marrying someone of the same sex is a choice that a citizen should have for themselves. A gay man from California, lost his partner during the September 11th, terrorist attacks. His partner was a flight attendant on the American Airlines flight 11, today he is now fighting the state and nation for survivors’ benefits, which should be rightfully granted to him because he is a widow. It took influential words while testifying to sway legislation to allow partial inheritance rights for domestic partners who are registered in California. Partners Task Force for Gay and Lesbian couples directed a survey where over 50% of Lesbians and 40% of gay man dealt with issues while trying to obtain employment benefits, lower tax rates, and insurance breaks because in the U.S. civil unions are not accepted as a legal marriage. Other issues Lesbians and Gays face are hospital visitation, adoption, employment, and many more. These issues can easily be disregarded if the couple had been legally married. Once a married person dies his or her spouse is considered the next of kin. Gays and Lesbians do not have that right. There have been cases where one has left a will, but family members have sued the spouse for burial rights and even assets on grounds of dementia or undue influence. The same issue is brought up at hospitals; a partner cannot make medical choices. As a whole we cannot answer if gay marriages should be legal or not. The state of Vermont has recently passed a law that permits Gays and Lesbians couples the right to join in civil unions, but we see that 36 states have also passed legislation that has banned gay marriages. Other states are still debating on whether or not these couples should have the right to marry. Unfortunately, this debate has left the U.S. Gay and Lesbian community in a sticky situation. Some citizens believe that gay people do not have any rights nor should they ever be permitted to marry, while other citizens believe that gay people share same values and are just like any other citizen and should be able to enjoy the same civil rights as straight people do. One may argue how does a gay person’s sexuality define what they can and cannot do? The same type of two-faced opinion could be used against straight couples adopting children from a different country. Not as many people have a problem with this, yet there are even more likely negative results with this situation than there is with a heterosexual marriage. What damage can a gay couple do to someone? ”Should Gay Marriage Be Legal?” (n.d.) states that “there is no such thing as a traditional marriage.” This statement is very true. There are so many different types of marriage that have been around for a very long time that we cannot call any type of marriage “traditional”. There is monogamy, the type of marriage these critics are basing their data on. Polygamy, this is a husband with more than one wife or a wife with more than one husband. Both of these forms of marriages have been around for decades upon decades. This article also makes a valid point of stating that many “traditional marriages” have been known to have mistresses and other barriers in these marriages. How could we categorize any marriage as traditional when there is no such thing? The right to marry was not given to just straight couples. It was given to two...
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