The Outlook of Gay Marriages
Quick, fast and in a hurry is usually how people live today and if one is lucky enough to find true love and commit to a relationship why will the sexual orientation matter. The purpose of this paper is to inform the reader of facts and personal opinions of why gay marriages should be legalized. Gay marriages have been a global issue for many years. Despite all the laws passed, people will continue to have an issue because people always feel the need to voice their opinions. To every issue there are two sides: People against same-sex marriage and those in favor of it. The legalization of same-sex marriage will not hinder or jeopardize our nation. Everyone is entitled to their happiness and should be able to live their life with whoever makes them happy, male or female. For the many gay and lesbian individuals in society, their goal is to have a marriage that will be honored just like a marriage between a man and woman. Allowing same-sex marriages will be for the greater good of the gay community. In my opinion, I do not see a problem with gay marriages being legalized, marriage is the union of two people in love, and gender should not matter.
Since 1971, the issue of allowing same-sex marriages has been on the horizon. In Minnesota where the first case was presented Baker v. Nelson the court determined that homosexuals did not have the right to marry because marriage is between a man and a woman. But in who’s book? Maryland became the first state to ban same-sex marriages and in years to follow 45 out of 50 states reach the same agreement by 1994. In 1996 President Bill Clinton signed the Defense of Marriage Act into law; this law banned the Federal Government from recognizing any sort of same-sex union. In 1999, the Vermont Supreme Court ruled in the Baker v. Vermont case that same-sex couples were entitled to the same right, protection and benefits as heterosexual couples. In 2011, President Obama instructed the Justice Department to stop defending the Defense of Marriage Act, because of concerns that it violates the equal protection component of the 5th Amendment. Currently to date the United States has 9 states that allow same-sex marriages: * Massachusetts (2004)
* Connecticut (2008)
* Iowa (2009)
* Vermont (2009)
* New Hampshire (2010)
* New York (2011)
* Washington (2012)
* Maryland (effective 2013)
* District of Columbia (2010)
And 10 countries throughout the world that allow same-sex marriages: *
* The Netherlands (2000)
* Belgium (2003)
* Canada (2005)
* South Africa (2006)
* Norway (2009)
* Argentina (2010)
* Iceland (2010)
* Portugal (2010)
* Brazil and Mexico (within certain areas)
As humans we all have rights and needs in life. Heterosexual and homosexual needs are not any different besides that the other person in their personal life is of the same sex. People whom are opposed to same-sex marriages have a set mentality that marriage is traditional and should only between a man and woman. But marriage is a symbol of love and commitment so how can marriage be defined as only for man and woman. Society, the government, laws, etc. should not determine how one chooses to live their personal life. “The United States Supreme Court declared that “freedom of personal choice in matters of marriage and family life is one of the liberties protected by the Due Process” (http://gaymarriage.procon.org).
There is an abundance of reasons why same-sex couples should have the right to marriage but a particular reason stands out in my opinion. In the event of a near death accident a woman can report to the hospital and be granted access to visit her husband and make decisions on his behalf if he is unable to do so. On the other hand, if the person in the accident was gay his or her partner will not be able to visit nor make a decision on their behalf. The Golden...
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