In the human society, marriage is the most essential social custom. Marriage appears as a compromise between two committed individuals, also known as spouses. It is a way of creating a family and obligations. Weddings are traditional ceremonies with exchange of wedding vows and rings, which symbolize eternity and love, between the bride (woman) and the groom (man). It is practiced in many modern countries and has similar meanings as marriage. Marriage is a social bond, which requires care and understandings between the two people. As long as spouses develop together while retaining their individuality, marriage will not be a social trap.
Marriage is a necessary and completing factor of the human life. If the two individuals understand, love, and care for each other, marriage does not become a social trap. As a child growing up, I perceived my parents giving each other some space and freedom, which I believed to be a prodigious idea. In society today, I do not see that sort of lifestyle in marriages. Too many people are dependent on others that they tend to disregard themselves. John Stuart Mill, philosopher, states in his essay “The Subjection of Women” that:
But these benefits are partial; their range is extremely circumscribed; and if they must be
admitted, on the one hand, as a deduction from the amount of fresh social power that
would be acquired by giving freedom to one-half of the whole sum of human intellect,
there must be added, on the other, the benefit of the stimulus that would be given to the
intellect of men by the competition; or (to use a more true expression) by the necessity
that would be imposed on them of deserving precedency before they could expect to
obtain it. (qtd. in Mill 823)
Upon having no freedom, I believe that marriage should be treated as a business partnership. There should not be one with a superior authority in the relationship, but have power on the things one is allocated and tenacious in. Both...
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