The social institution under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal loyalty, the state, condition, or relationship of being married; wedlock, a relationship in which two people have pledged themselves to each other in the manner of a husband and wife, these definitions describe one of Gods greatest honors given to man . Marriage is the binding of two people into one union. In today’s society people get married and the easy way out of the situation is to get a divorce. In some cases there is nothing else to do, but there are also people who are selfish and do not want to be held down. In this paper I am going to show you the customs and traditions of marriages before Christ, compared to the marriages of today’s society.
The Jewish origins have been known to have a variety of traditions. The origins of these traditions find their roots in both Bible-related customs, traditions carried down through generations, and relics of superstitious beliefs. Jews were traditionally encouraged not to believe in superstition. They are told not to believe them, but they should be aware that they are there. In the Jewish religion and throughout the world many religions believe that that demons and evil spirits will come to destroy people’s lives that are happy and when things are going good in life. They believe that the evil spirits are attracted to a time when people are about to get married.
The first major step in a Jewish marriage was betrothal. Betrothal involved the establishment of a marriage covenant . By Jesus' time it was usual for such a covenant to be established as the result of the prospective bridegroom taking the initiative. The prospective bridegroom would travel from his father's house to the home of the prospective bride. There he would negotiate with the father of the young woman to determine the price that he must pay to purchase his bride. Once the bridegroom paid the purchase price, the marriage covenant was thereby established, and the young man and woman were regarded to be husband and wife. From that moment on the bride was declared to be consecrated or sanctified, set apart exclusively for her bridegroom. As a symbol of the covenant relationship that had been established, the groom and bride would drink from a cup of wine over which a betrothal benediction had been pronounced. After the marriage covenant had been established, the groom would leave the home of the bride and return to his father's house. There he would remain separate from his bride for a period of twelve months. This period of separation afforded the bride time to gather her treasures and to prepare for married life . The groom occupied himself with the preparation of living accommodations in his father's house to which he could bring his bride. At the end of the period of separation the groom would come to take his bride to live with him. The taking of the bride usually took place at night. The groom, best man and other male escorts would leave the groom's father's house and conduct a torch light procession to the home of the bride. Although the bride was expecting her groom to come for her, she did not know the exact time of his coming. As a result the groom's arrival would be preceded by a shout. This shout would forewarn the bride to be prepared for the coming of the groom. After the groom received his bride together with her female attendants, the enlarged wedding party would return from the bride's home to the groom's father's house. Upon arrival there the wedding party would find that the wedding guests had assembled already. Shortly after the arrival of the bride and groom they would be escorted by the other members of the wedding party to the bridal chamber where he prepares to unveil his bride. The custom of veiling the bride, or badecken, is traditionally explained by the reference to Rebecca from the Bible . In Genesis 24:65 "Rebecca took her veil and covered herself" upon her first...
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