The trend of marriage in the modern society
The meaning of marriage differs from one person to another, and from one time to another. In ancient times, for example, a marriage meant a condition in which the legal union of a man and a woman as husband and wife. For much of human history, marriage had been a permanent institution that, once entered into, cannot be dissolved except by the death of one of the spouses. In the modern world, however, marriage is a vastly different thing. On the up side, marriage is today more of a gathering of equals, rather than the subjugation of one to the other. On the down side, marriage often becomes much more temporary than it has been in years past. In this modern society marriage is just a contract for a relationship, but it cannot guarantee a marriage lasting a lifetime. It has often been ending up in a divorce. This is different from the past decades. According to the recent research, there is more than fifty percent of Americans will end up divorcing. Now, the question is what is going on with married couples, and with marriage in general? There is no simple answer for that, but all the changes in the world in the past years could be part of the answer. Society has changed its mentality in a lot of ways, and one of them is the acceptance of divorce as a normal way to end an unhappy relationship. People marry each other for love most of the time; they want to share a life together. But feelings change, families change, and sometimes these changes are irreconcilable. The difference from the past decades ago and today is that, now people are getting divorced for all kinds of different reasons that did not exist before. One important example is the change in women’s independence. The women’s movement opened the gate to women competing jobs with men outside home. Therefore women no longer only stayed at home being a house wife. They also could make money and do not need to depend on men. Women who adopt egalitarian...
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